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Long story short I mentioned to my dad I was planning to go over to my parents house this weekend so that my parents and boyfriend could exchange gifts ( my boy was out of town for the past month and a half). We didn’t go because I had to work late and his flight got delayed. I conveyed this to my sister who called saying “dad wants to know…” I gave her the scoop. Sunday same story I had to work late so I 86-ed the idea. Sunday night mom called saying I hurt my dad’s feelings because I didn’t call Sat. I started to explain that my sister had called on behalf of my Dad and my Mom hung up on me. I called my Dad and apologized if I hurt his feelings and told him I talked to my sis and he acted like it was no biggie. He wasn’t mad or anything. I made sure he was going to be home yesterday we made plans to visit and all was fine. Yesterday at my part-time job (where I got my mom a job) she ignored me when I came in and ignored my calls on the radio and then during our daily meeting she got a bag and threw my boy’s christmas presents in my lap along with some mail that was at her house telling me she didn’t want the shit that it was all junk to her now. In front of everyone including her co-manager. I managed to stay composed until our meeting was over but I decided I’m quitting that job and told my dad that I wasn’t coming over to the house anymore until she apologized. I don’t know why she is so angry. She called last nigth and left a message that was very cold and all she said was she knew I couldn’t afford to quit that job ( which I can- I have another full and part time job) and that she would just stay away from me if I didn’t want to talk to her anymore. But I needed to stop being emotional and not quit because of her… WHAT THE HELL IS HER PROBLEM? She has been like this for a long time and treats me like shit. This isn’t the first incidence where she has been rude and mean for no reason. But I’m tired of being walked on. I called in today so she can be sure that i am not joking this time. Did I do the right thing? Please honest answers only. And please don’t be rude. I get enough of that as it is.